Ugh.. this is so frustrating....
you would think out of all places, "cosplaying/cosplayers" would be a place to be at home....
This is the thing.. NOTHING should restrict you from expressing yourself how you would like to...
(on a side note though.. being "larger" or even "thin" the best thing you can do for yourself is to just make sure your cosplay is not sloppy. Make sure your cosplay fits YOU well)
Yes, there will be those few who will bash on "size, shape, color" but you know what.. you have about 19000 others at acen who thinks you look great..
and think about it.. how many awesome cosplays do you see in which you say nothing to the cosplayer.
the cosplayer might be on the other side of the room so you CANT say anything to him/her...
you might be shy when a "plus size" cosplayer is next to you in which you think his/her cosplay is really awesome...
and you know what.. its the shy ones who appreciate your look the most...
and we have to admit.. and LOT of con goers are of the "quiet type" or reserved...
we have all seen it.. we have seen people in the lobby at the hyatt just sitting there for hours watching everyone walk by.. and those people are really enjoying them selves(for the most part that is)
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LOT of woman contact me expressing their admiration for my work. I quickly respond
"why just admire, why not create"
but because they feel they are "plus size" they do not feel they would be able to create anything anyone would appreciate...
thats such BS and I can not tell you how much that aggravates me...
The problem is that we allow main stream media to dictate to us what IS, and what is NOT beautiful..
we are surrounded and live in main stream media.. everywhere we go...
magazine covers/spreads, tv commercials, advertisements on billboards, on the side of bus's.... in malls..... even toys for children.....
its all around us and we live in it...
I refuse to allow main stream to dictate what beauty is to me...
beauty is all around us, and from within each and every one of us....
accept who you are and be confident.. there is a world of cosplayers behind you.. dont let the FEW bad apples spoil a good time, or worse, make you not feel so great about yourself...
I do some modeling.. as often as i can, but my schedule doesnt allow me to express myself as often as I wish I could...
Im not a Calvin Klein model.. but you know what... SO WHAT!!!!
those who follow my art work already know this about me.. but if i really think about it.. on THIS forum, i think only 3 people really keep up with my art...
my modeling is my expression of...
"I dont care what you think... I know I am not perfect, and I accept that....this is who I am, and this is how I want others to see me"
This post has been edited by Seph: 13 February 2011 - 10:19 AM