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Posted 05 May 2008 - 08:42 PM

View PostSayuri-chan, on May 5 2008, 01:51 AM, said:

That's a good idea. I've read through other people's suggestions and they are right. You shouldn't have to play mediator in your own room with someone who has made it more than clear that they don't want to be romantically with you, and they aren't acting like they want to be your friend either. It kind of sounds like she's just mooching off of you because you have a room in the hotel. >.>;; *gives hugs* Don't let her push you around in your own space, and if things really get that bad, I'm sure your friends that are with you will realize that you were being the better person and trying to just be nice and give her a place to crash. While a bad idea in general to share space with an ex, I think it shows your true character by doing such a thing to begin with. (A really nice guy!)

I hope you have a great time at the con, and seriously, don't stress yourself out and don't let her do that to you either. Conventions are all about having fun, and even if you weren't at a con, no one should let their ex stress them out to any extent like that. Decisions were made, if she still wants to keep things going, then maybe its time for someone to give her a reality check.


Thats the best advice so far. I'm just afraid of her trying to "get" to me by hassling me at the convention. If she does hassle me, then I'm going to give her an ultimatum of either shaping up or shipping out (I love that line). Thanks for the compliment about being a nice guy, I am really trying to be civil with her about about all of this since the break-up, but she seemingly keeps acting like a junior high kid. I won't get into the details, but its just become more and more bothersome with each time somebody tells me about something she said or did. I'm tired of her trying to "get" to me. I wanted to just be friends with her, but apparently that can't happen right now. I just look forward to when this is all over with. Thanks again for the great advice, I really appreciate it. :D . Some of my best friends are going to be at the con with me, so at least I have them to rely on in case she pulls any stunts while we are there. I hope you have a great time at the con too, and thanks again!
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Posted 05 May 2008 - 09:10 PM

View Postotaku_man7, on May 5 2008, 08:42 PM, said:

Thats the best advice so far. I'm just afraid of her trying to "get" to me by hassling me at the convention. If she does hassle me, then I'm going to give her an ultimatum of either shaping up or shipping out (I love that line). Thanks for the compliment about being a nice guy, I am really trying to be civil with her about about all of this since the break-up, but she seemingly keeps acting like a junior high kid. I won't get into the details, but its just become more and more bothersome with each time somebody tells me about something she said or did. I'm tired of her trying to "get" to me. I wanted to just be friends with her, but apparently that can't happen right now. I just look forward to when this is all over with. Thanks again for the great advice, I really appreciate it. :D . Some of my best friends are going to be at the con with me, so at least I have them to rely on in case she pulls any stunts while we are there. I hope you have a great time at the con too, and thanks again!



No problemo. :) If you need an ear, don't be afraid to PM me. I've been obsessively checking the forums as ACen gets closer and closer. ^^ I'm really glad to have helped in some small way. I feel that this ACen is going to be one of the best, though all of them seem awesome to me cause like many of the people on the forums, I'm a major anime geek. XD Anyway, good luck to you! Maybe I'll see ya in the reg line at the con. (As per usual, reg staff owns a bit of my soul. *lol*)
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